Domestic violence in the church

When my minestry started about a year ago I knew I was called show people who have commited horrible and very wicked sins but what I didnt know is more female christians than any one else say God cant forgive me or I have done such horrible things than any one I know so I cant return to church.So many woman of God are allowing their boy friends or their spouce to hurt them spirtualley,mentalley,emotionalley or psysicalley.I find it so heart breaking how many woman tolerate men hurting them and how many woman are going to bed at night crying because they live in a world of isolation,feeling condemed and feeling worth less.An abortion doctor who got saved said 90 of my patients were christians saying my church,my friends or my family will condenm me if they found out I was pregnet.Men we as men of God need to really start praying for our daughters,wives and sisters in the lord because the enemy is really making it a strong point to destroy woman and why woman are so valuable to the body of Christ so please husbands start showing your wife just how much she is valuable and fathers please teach your daughters that their always welcomed home.Men of God start living a higher standard.After getting involved in D.V. I was so shocked that one minute a man is raising his hands to worship God but than an hour later was putting a black on on his wifes face.This is wrong,nomatter what people say or excuse they use woman need to be held and they need to see that your loving arms are safe.Look at this scripture,1 Peter 3:7 
 Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered. HusbandsHusbandshhhhMen we are being called to love our wives.After getting involved in demestic