Is my fiancee right for me?

Hi. I am a Christian. My fiancee is a believer in God. I have prayed for this answer, but i am just needing some help. I have been seeing my fiancee for 9years. I love him very much. We have been engaged 4years now, with hardly any chance of getting married, he wants to move intogether 1st. I am 25 and know i have to make my dissision now for i cannot wait forever. I dont want to force marriage and for him to have regrets or worse. And to talk about marriage to him is out of the question. However a few weeks after his christian friend got married, he said yes to marriage, for he said its what God would want, i was the happiest girl in the world, my prayers were answered. Then a few weeks later, he said he didnt mean it, he didnt know what he was thinking..To leave him is very hard, are relationship has fell apart. I care for him. I cannot see any option but to leave him? Any advice would be appricated. Thanks

What do YOU think?



  1. lookingforhope2011 says:

    My thoughts on this are try not to force it. Ultimately God is in control. When it comes to taking advice im the worlds worse. But if your going through this BEFORE marriage I think the both of you should sit down and have a heart to heart with each other and especially with God. Believe me. If its right then things will align themselves perfectly. Be blessed

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