Hi,

I'm not sure how to call you, you're older than me. Here in Indonesia you can't call someone who older than you just with their name. There should be something like "Pak" or "Mas" mentioned before the name. This time must be hard for you. I can't imagine how I can handle it if I were you. I hope I can handle it well.

I want to say something that bring encouragement but I'm not sure what to say. Anyway I'll pray for you. May God be with you and this experience strengthen your faith in Him.

God bless you.