To My Sister and Friend in Christ,
I write to you in hopes to help you see the bigger picture. I myself have gone through this same torment since the end of 2007. We worked things out and 3 months later the issue appeared again, then again. Each time I prayed for God to give me the Strenghth and the Wisdom to get through this. He came to my side each time. Through God my marraige is working, Trusting my husband is hard but I'm trying my best too. Trusting the Lord is your key. He is the only one you can truley trust. Speak to him. He's listening. Now it's your turn to hear.
If you want your marriage fight for it. Remember what a marriage is.. A covent (a blessing) between man, woman and GOD! Tell your husband that your not giving up. Fight for it. If there is love still there you may reach him in some little way. Write him notes emails, true letters by mail, send cards. show him that you still care. Most certainly tell him that God didn't marry you to divide you. Remember God created woman from a piece of man. We are connected by paper by government. By sex by the physical body(flesh). By the holy spirt by God. Tell your husband that if he leaves your marriage that you will not leave him. Don't give up on God. Stay committed to him. if your husband leaves you then don't go off and commit adultry against him. If he is in the wrong let him be there. Pray for him. But don't you go off and commit those same sins. Better to be with the Lord in pain, then sin against him.Believe, have trust in God to save what is in his sight good.I don't know all the details but, live as Jesus would have you do. Look to him to give you the answers. He is always willing to give you the answers and comfort you need. Reach out to him. He loves you! Your fellow sister in Faith, Believeinhimnow