Liz you need to check out the website www.marriagebuilders.com.

Dr Harley is a Christian counsellor who can help you a lot.

The first thing to do is the most logical -- change jobs.

Then change your cellphone.

Never have contact again with the person you are committing adultery with.

Once you have severed this contact, you need to front up to your husband, seek his forgiveness (he may elect to walk away at this point and it IS his right to make that call), and identify and work through the relationship issues that led you to be vulnerable. You may need professional help as a couple, but Dr Harley offers a blueprint that you can use here.

Ask God's forgiveness and invite him back into your life. He is a loving father and will forgive your sin if you are sincere in renouncing it.

We pray for you that you will do the right thing and call down God's blessing on you in your time of need.

In Jesus Name
Amen