Pates is a archaic word for a person's head. I do not know what you mean by using this word. In every denomination there are people in it for what they can receive from others. There is no denomination that is perfect. It is up to the indivual person to work out their own salvation with fear and trembling. (Phil. 2:12) It is not the church that saves a person but is is in the Blood of Jesus Christ and nothing else. It is not the church that causes a person to become more like Christ but it is the Holy Spirit working in the person's life. It is not the church that causes one to be holy but it is the person obeying God. How do you know that you have or had a white light within your soul? I caution you that the very enemy of your soul disguses himself as an angel of light. (2 Cor. 11:14). Many people are being snared by this angel of light.