A broken Heart

So recently i told the person i loved that i loved them and it feels like they ripped my heart out and stomped on it. I know i am suppose to go to god but i feel like i cant. help me please

What do YOU think?



  1. Warrior Daughter, you have just given me strong confirmation of something Jesus has been trying to get through to me. I had believed a relationship I had prayed for for many years was of the Lord. We were together for six years and I thought we would soon be married. Then, suddenly last Fall, he left me. We had not been fighting, I thought we were very happy together. I soon discovered he had been cheating on me for a long time and had left me for this other, younger, prettier woman. (We are both senior citizens) My world collapsed, especially since I was totally convinced our relationship was of the Lord. I prayed and prayed and then the Lord gave me the scripture about the bread and the fish. He showed me that I was not getting what I was praying for because although I thought it was bread, He knew it was a stone. What I thought was a fish, was a scorpion. Then He showed me I had committed a number of sins, the biggest of which was idolotry because I had put this man before God. I have repented, and I know I have been forgiven, but I believe I still need prayer because I still love this man, in spite of everything he has done. I only want the Lord’s will in my life, but I can’t shake this deep conviction that eventually this man will repent and come to Jesus and we will be married. Please pray for him to be saved, but also that I will be delivered from anything that is a deception of the enemy. Thank you.8



    • warrior daughter says:

      First off …you are so greatly loved that what was happening behind your back was revealed for what it is….

      You were tangled up with a man who gave you attention & us women do like to feel special…

      After the break up, we can still have feelings that God will work into the man’s heart & he will be saved & we will be wed….Been there & done that but with a man who said he was a Christian but it was revealed to me a few weeks before the wedding his true heart…I pined for this man & even heard the same words God spoke to you about the serpent, scorpion & rock.. 

      God had to speak again to me using Phippians 4:8 since I was still convinced we would be together. (He is married to another now)

      8 Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy—meditate on these things.

      I have come to the conclusion that in any relationship if it was not a true relationship &  false & disappointing then God was/is not in it…

      Was it a noble relationship???Did it draw me closer to God or did it draw me to the man???

      Was it a pure relationship???Was it  sensual ie not the actual act but talking about what we would be doing after marriage…Was it implanting images in my head that were not pure??

      Was it lovely??Was he kind to me & putting my best interests first or his??? Was he using me??

      Could I tell others about the relationship & not have them question why I loved this man???

      Was my mind centered on God or was it centered on the man??? 

      I was able to break free from the thoughts & the heart ache that were hindering my race by using Phippians 4:8


  2. Timothy Luke says:

    If we cannot go to God with our issues in life, who can we go to? God is the only one who really loves you and has your best interest at heart. We get our hearts broken when we place other people above God. This is probably behind your desire to avoid Him. When we value the rejection of a person more than we value the acceptance of God, through Jesus Christ, we have made an idol out of them. This is a sin and needs to be repented of, whether we feel like it or not.  We have to make our lives line up with the Word of God and then our hearts will be set free. Hope this helps! Tim

  3. warrior daughter says:

    You will experience a broken heart as you go into different relationships …Either they will love you back or reject you…Do not let this rejection cause you to get angry at God & turn from Him..God in His wisdom knows the true heart of the person who you loved.  We may love  someone &  think that God brought us together but  the true person will emerge ….They may be the one who breaks it off & we take this as rejection but it is God who is behind the actions of the person..After awhile, you will be able to look back on the experience & realize that  this person was not the one for you…

    If a son asks for bread from any father among you, will you give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will you give him a serpent instead of a fish? Or if he asks for a egg, will he offer him a scorpion?  Luke 11:11

    What happens if you eat a stone?  It  cannot be digested & who knows what damage it would do to you.

    Can you handle a serpent without being harmed or even killed? What about a scorpion?  Some scorpions are just as deadly as a serpent & other scorpions have a very painful sting..

    What I am getting at is that if you asked God for someone to love & the person broke your heart they would have been a stone in your life to weigh you down or a serpent  who would have destroyed you or a scorpion who would have destroyed your walk with the Lord…

    Remember that the Father knows best …

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